I was actually team Kallen in Code Geass though I'm not sure where exactly the new Code Geass stuff intends to go -- I'm not even sure Lelouch is going to be in it. I think the first movie/episode starts tomorrow or something so we'll see soon.
Hmm... I mean I guess everyone has red flags or trigger warnings or whatever based on their lived experience. Personally, I hate notions of 'persistence' in romance in general, though sometimes I'll hate read stuff like Kanokari where its the only real virtue the protagonist has. Ghosting too; no one should be 'persistent' enough to forgive being ghosted for a meaningful period of time. I really dislike the trope of playing 'catch up' to someone; aside from not really working that generally that just means you're pissing away time you could be together. I actually consider myself on the aromantic spectrum so fake aro stuff makes me want to throw things. Even Bloom Into You was kinda dead to me past a point.
If you're at the point of "averting your gaze" or whatever you may want to consider therapy or something, just sayin. Or maybe look up power fantasy about moving on; I quite liked
I'm Sick and Tired of My Childhood Friend's, Now Girlfriend's, Constant Abuse so I Broke Up with Her though it hit a bit close to home. Regardless, life's too short to dwell on shitty people.